Every life is a dilemma that must be solved by the person living it.
To the question of your life, you are the only answer. To the problems of your life, you are the only solution. Absurd it may sound, you are the only one who knows what will make you truly happy.
If you cannot find the answers you have long been seeking, that is because they are hidden deep inside your heart. Take time to listen to your heart. While it may fail to speak out the words you want to hear, it has every answer you need.
Better yet, toss a coin. As they say, when faced with two choices, simply toss a coin. It works not because it settles the question for you, but because, in that brief moment with the coin is in the air, you suddenly know what you are hoping for.
And that’s your heart speaking to you.